Enlarging Our Yes – A Reflection On Protest And Dignity

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My Weekly Protest

Every Thursday for the last several weeks I’ve joined others at a protest. We meet at the main intersection downtown. There’s usually around thirty-five of us. I suspect each of us has our reasons for being there. 

I show up to protest for people, the United States, democracy, the Constitution, the rule of law. I show up to protest against the tactics of ICE, injustice, the violation of human and civil rights, and the cruelty, violence, and abuse of power by President Trump and the Republican administration.

Everyone there has a sign or an American flag, some of us have both. My sign says,

“Respect the dignity of every human being. 
Peace, justice, nonviolence for all.”

It’s a quiet gathering. We talk amongst ourselves and wave and smile at the drivers and passengers of cars passing through the intersection. A lot of the people don’t respond or make eye contact. They just drive on through. But there are also a lot who do respond. 

The vast majority who respond wave, smile, honk their horns, or give a thumbs up. Some say, “Thank you.” Each week there are a few who voice or gesture their disagreement. The women usually give a thumbs down. The men yell or offer a middle finger. 

I wonder…

I wonder if those few even read my sign. Are they really flipping off peace, justice, nonviolence? Are they really giving a thumbs down to respecting the dignity of every human being? Or maybe the fingers and thumbs are for me and not what’s on my sign.

I wonder if they realize that what I am protesting for is as much about their dignity and life as it is the dignity and life of the immigrants the current administration is hunting and oppressing. I wonder if they know that peace, justice, and nonviolence are as much for their benefit, the benefit of their friends and family, the benefit of President Trump, as they are for my benefit or the benefit of anyone else who might look, believe, speak, or act different from them. 

I wonder what assumptions they are making, what conversations are going on in their heads, what stories they are telling themselves. I have an idea of what those might be. I suspect they are making the same assumptions, having the same conversations, and telling themselves the same stories as I did that day I pulled up behind a big truck with what looked like an even bigger Trump sticker. 

I don’t know who the driver was. I never saw him or her. I never met them. I never talked with them. I didn’t know a thing about him or her. But I sure was making assumptions, having conversations in my head, and telling myself some stories about them. And none of it had to do with respecting their dignity. In that moment I wasn’t standing for peace, justice, or nonviolence.

Maybe you know what that’s like. Maybe you’ve had similar responses to Trump stickers, MAGA caps, protestors on the street, or immigrants in the country. I don’t know how we – how I – got to this place but I know it’s not where I want to be. And it’s not where I want our country to be. So I protest.

The sign I hold every Thursday is as much a reminder and challenge to myself as it is to anyone else.

Who am I to inscribe limitations on human dignity? Who am I to make assumptions about people I don’t know and haven’t even met? Who am I to tell a story about them when I don’t know a thing about them? And who are you to do that? Who are President Trump and the Republicans to do that? Who are any of us to do that?

Dignity is a given.

The thing about dignity is that it is a given. “How can anyone who is made to bear likeness to the maker of the cosmos be anything less than glory? This is inherent dignity.” (Cole Arthur Riley, This Here Flesh. New York: Convergent Books, 2022, 7.) 

Dignity is not determined by race, gender, sexual orientation, citizenship, wealth, political party, religious belief, or any other category we often use to assign or withhold dignity. It is not earned by loyalty. It is not something that some have and others don’t. Dignity just is. Dignity is inherent in every human being. We cannot give to or take from another her or his dignity. We either affirm it or we deny it. (Ibid., 7-11.) That’s a choice we make every day.

What choice are you and I making these days? What choice are we making as a country?

I used to bristle when Christianity and the gospel were reduced to simply being nice to others. I still think it’s more than that. But sometimes that now feels like a pretty high bar.

But here’s the thing. Jesus never said, “You all just be nice to one another.” Instead, he talked about loving others, even our enemies. He refused to strike back with words or the sword. He flipped over the tables of corruption but as far as I know he never flipped off people. He welcomed and cared about the poor, the outcast, the hungry, the stranger, the oppressed and marginalized. He offered his peace. He didn’t assume or make up stuff about others, he was present to them. He was willing to change his mind about people who were different from him. 

Jesus didn’t assign worth and value to some but not others, he recognized worth and value in everyone. What about us? What if we could enlarge our yes to some to be a yes to all? What would that take? What would it look like and mean in your life today?

Maybe that’s what’s behind the great commandment that tells us to love our neighbor as ourselves. Maybe that’s why Jesus wants us to do to others as we would have them do to us. It’s about human dignity.

Those were such easy and fun verses to memorize when I was a kid in Sunday School. But as I’ve said before, those verses need to come off the page and onto the streets. They need to get out of my head and into my relationships. They need to leave the classroom and enter the world – through my words, actions, vote, donations, protests, and prayers.

Today is Thursday. In a little while I will drive downtown and for an hour I will stand on a street corner with my sign. I will remind myself and anyone else who reads my sign that dignity just is and that dignity is just. Maybe one day the words on my sign will be written on my heart and the heart of this country.

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11 responses to “Enlarging Our Yes – A Reflection On Protest And Dignity”

  1. otterironb6a3afecc9 Avatar
    otterironb6a3afecc9

    Thank you,thank you,Mike. One of the gifts of your retirement must be the freedom to speak freely without concern over what your parish,the diocese,or the Bishop might think.You were always true to your beliefs,but how nice to be able to speak them loudly…to protest in public.You continue to set a good example for all of us who say what we believe Jesus has taught us but are reluctant to put our words into action.

    Peace,

    Ellen Connelly

    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Thank you for your kind and encouraging words Ellen. It’s certainly a different context for me now.

      Peace be with you,
      Mike

  2. zealousthoroughly4ec2fd5368 Avatar
    zealousthoroughly4ec2fd5368


    Amen Mike. Keep up your important message

    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Thank you Betty. It was great to see you last week.

      Peace be with you,
      Mike

  3. phenomenala72163e149 Avatar
    phenomenala72163e149

    My father taught me respect is granted to all immediately upon meeting someone the first time. Disrespect is earned. I felt enlightened for a long time. Now, disrespecting someone seems to easy so it couldn’t come from God. God IS Love. God doesn’t disrespect anyone. Correct? How can one disrespect someone that is truly loved? Love you Mike!! Keep up the pace!! You and Cindy are loved by so many including Vicky and I.

    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Well said Joey. Thank you. I remember a mentor who talked about how we often unmake what God has made in GOd’s image and likeness. I hope you and Vicky are well. We’re grateful for you all.

      Peace be with you,
      Mike

  4. lundyjanc2016 Avatar
    lundyjanc2016

    You, dear Mike, are a courageous and wise man! Thank you for your courage and commitment to speak your truth and say what, in my opinion, needs to be spoken!

    Peace, Love and Joy be with you,

    Jan

    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Jan, thank you for your encouragement and support.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike

  5. Rambling Rose Avatar

    From way in far off Sri Lanka – a primarily Buddhist country – I look upon the ‘antics” of your President and the Christians who support him. It is extremely difficult not to hate – but I am irate that the gospel is so distorted and the message of peace, love, brotherhood is dumped into power play politics.

    It is hard to explain this brand of Christianity to our Buddhist and even Muslim neighbours. How can we tell them we are fighting not against the powers of darkness …” for we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of darkness of this age …”

    The Blessed Mother warned about this in so many apparitions. You – all of us – need the full armour of God to get through this battle. The Rosary too is a powerful weapon for those who wish to use it.

    Prayers in your struggle ,, in the world struggle for sanity and goodness, love and the reign of the Prince of Peace.

    Rosanne

    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Thank you Roseanne. I appreciate your prayers and share your frustration and anger.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike

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