Faith In The Days Of Tragedy

Jeremiah 31:15-7, Matthew 2:13-18, Feast of the Holy Innocents, Weeping, Lamentation, Violence, Gun Violence, Las Vegas

Rachel Weeping For her Children (Image in Public Domain, Wikimedia Commons

There’s a part of me that just wants to scream, “Enough is enough! Make it stop. How much more can we take?”

I am talking about Las Vegas, Maria, Irma, Harvey, Charlottesville, the ongoing wars and violence in the Middle East, terrorism, and the multiple genocides currently taking place in our world. I am talking about the many loved ones of this parish who died this year. We had five deaths in a two week period, twelve or thirteen for the year. I am talking about the history of violence in our country and throughout the world. The list is long, painful, and bloody.

What is going on in our world today? I’m not the only one asking this. Several of you have asked me if this is the end time. Is this the apocalypse? Is that which we call evil going to win? How do we live in the midst of this without becoming phobic of the future, the world, one another? What does faithfulness look like in the face of tragedy and loss? What will happen next? Where is God in all of this? Even if you haven’t asked me these kind of questions, I suspect you’ve asked them to yourselves or discussed them with friends and family.

We are certainly not the first or only ones to struggle with this. The question of human suffering is universal and has always been a part of our faith journey.

  • Just last week we heard the Israelites asking, “Is the Lord among us or not” (Ex. 17:7)?
  • The Psalmist accuses God of being asleep, tells God to wake up, and wants to know why God is hiding God’s face and ignoring the affliction and distress of God’s people (Ps. 44:24-25).
  • When the angel of the Lord says to Gideon, “The Lord is with you,” Gideon answers, “But sir, if the Lord is with us, why then has all this happened to us” (Judges 6:12-13)?
  • And let’s not forget the cry of Jesus, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me” (Mt. 27:46; Ps. 22:1-2)?

What do we do with all this?

We could accuse and blame God, chalk it up to human free will, remind ourselves that God suffers and weeps with us, or acknowledge that God’s ways are not our ways. Each is well within our scriptural and theological tradition, but do those really answer our questions or offer comfort? We know illness sometimes leads to death and we know that June 1 through November 30 is hurricane season and storms are to be expected. Those are not, however, acceptable responses to someone whose loved one has died or to one who has lost his or her home. We could enact stricter gun laws, deal honestly with climate change, provide better care for the mentally ill, work to eliminate racism, seek the good for all countries, religions, and people; and I hope we will. Maybe those things will have an affect on our future. But what about right here and right now? What about the suffering of today; yours, mine, our country’s, the world’s?

I have no satisfactory explanations or answers to any of the questions I’ve asked or a thousand others like them. And I will not pretend to give you any. And even if I gave your answers I don’t for a minute think any of you would say, “Ok, that makes sense. I now understand and accept what has happened.” The suffering is too real, the pain too deep, and the tears too many. We don’t need answers and explanations as much as we need a way forward. So I did something I’ve never done before. I asked Bishop Reed for permission to use scriptural readings other than the ones assigned for today. The Book of Common Prayer allows that in special circumstances. And he said yes. I chose Rachel and the Feast of the Holy Innocents as our guides and teachers for today.

Rachel offers us a way forward in this season of tragedy, loss, suffering, and grief. It is the way of tears. It is the way of lamentation, bitter weeping, and the refusal to be comforted.

“A voice is heard in Ramah, lamentation and bitter weeping.
Rachel is weeping for her children;

she refuses to be comforted for her children,
because they are no more”
(Jer. 31:15; see also Mt. 2:18).

We heard those lines twice, once from Jeremiah and once from Matthew. Jeremiah sets Rachel’s lamentation and bitter weeping in the context of her children being sent into exile, a separation of mother and child, a death. Matthew’s context is King Herod’s slaughter of “all the children in and around Bethlehem who were two years old and under” (Mt. 2:16) following the birth of Jesus.

Rachel knows what it means to have her heart pierced. Her lamentation and bitter weeping have never ended. Her voice is heard throughout our lives and our land today. Her tears protest the circumstances of her life, her grief, and the suffering of others. Just like our tears they come from a deep place of love, compassion, sorrow, loss, and justice. They hold before God her broken heart. Her tearful protest does not answer the question of evil or human suffering; rather, it helps maintain her sanity in a world that has seemingly gone mad (Wolpe, The Healer of Shattered Hearts, p. 144).

What tears do you weep today? For yourself? Another? The world? What is your lamentation and bitter weeping about?

Sometimes our tears are the only and most authentic part of ourselves we have to offer God. They are all we have. They are who we are. In those times they are our prayer, the tether between us and God. The presence of our tears in the tragic is as important as the presence of God. They are where God’s life and our life intersect. Maybe that’s why God hears the voice of Rachel. Maybe that’s why God says to her, “There is hope for your future” (Jer. 31:17).

The way of hope, however, is often a tearful path. Jesus wept at the grave of Lazarus (Jn. 11:35). He wept over Jerusalem (Lk. 23:28). Tears water and soften the soil of our heart. They are our preparation for God “making all things new” (Rev. 21:5).

I want to stand with Rachel today. And I want you to stand with Rachel today. I want us, with Rachel, to refuse to be comforted. Rachel will not accept the false comfort of answers or easy explanations. There are no satisfactory answers or acceptable explanations. And yet, in every tragedy that’s one of the first things we seek. We want motive, someone or something to blame, a solution to our extraordinary grief and suffering.

Look at what’s happening with the Las Vegas shooting. Who was Stephen Paddock? What was his life like? Why did he do this? How did he get all those guns into his room? The interviews, speculations, and questions seem endless. The news reports are unrelenting. I understand that a criminal investigation needs to be done and I support that. But beyond that I can’t help but wonder if we have become voyeurs of evil and suffering? If that’s what we are feeding on in this or any other tragedy then we are becoming malnourished.

What if tears are our true nourishment in the days of loss and sorrow? What if we have been given the “bread of tears” to feed upon and “tears to drink in full measure” (Ps. 80:5)? That sure seems to be the way of Rachel and it may just be the way of faith amidst faithlessness, the way of hope amidst despair, and the way of prayer when we have no words.

Lamentation, bitter weeping, and the refusal to be comforted. Our tearful prayer of protest pierces the heart of God. It did for Rachel and it will for us. Tearful prayers of protest are not an answer to what is happening in the world today, simply a way forward.

I recently read the story of Rabbi Levi Yitzhak’s protest and prayer (Wolpe, p. 158). It was the opening service of the Day of Atonement. The sun was setting and the time to begin was near but the Rabbi remained silent. He waited until the last possible moment to speak.

“Dear God,” he said, “we come before You this year, as we do every year, to ask Your forgiveness. But in the past year, I have caused no death. I have brought no plagues upon the world, no earthquakes, no floods. I have made no women widows, no children orphans. God, you have done these things, not me! Perhaps You should be asking forgiveness from me.”

There is brutal honesty, deep compassion, and profound grief in his protest. It mirrors Rachel’s lamentation and bitter weeping. Rabbi Levi and Rachel speak to our hearts. We recognize ourselves in them.

After his protest Rabbi Levi paused and in a softer voice said, “But since you are God and I am only Levi Yitzhak,” and then he began saying the words of prayer for the service.

“There is no escaping the pain of suffering and the tormenting questions of God’s silence…. Therefore we continue to pray” (Wolpe, p. 159). We continue to lament and weep bitter tears. We continue to refuse to be comforted. We continue to protest. That’s what faith looks like on days like this.

Silence

I invite you to stand in protest, to bring the lamentation and bitter weeping of your life, to refuse to be comforted, and to pray for Las Vegas.

14 thoughts on “Faith In The Days Of Tragedy

  1. Thank you, Michael Marsh. You have really brought up many of the things I have been thinking about. I need to read your column again tomorrow when I am cold sober. Perhaps then I will be better prepared to do whatever I can to alleviate the sitation. Bless you.

    Jim Clark

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  2. wow…thank-you so much. I’m so glad you are a priest/preacher. This is how our G-d is with us,through such messengers in dark times. Gratefulness.

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  3. Today my mind is a jumble of ideas and emotions. I am not an original thinker, but I seem to have a memory for the quotations of others that have been meaningful for me over the years. First, today, I recall Mary Oliver’s poem “At Black River” which end with this: ‘… death comes before the rolling away of the stone.’ The Holy Spirit led me to this when I had a medical scare. I read it and my anxiety vanished. God is with us. I think of this whenever I am troubled.

    Having been reared in the Roman church, I am familiar with the Mysteries of the Rosary. I meditate often on the Sorrowful Mysteries. When Jesus suffers the agony in the garden, I think He is feeling the terror of everyone in the world who has hidden behind locked doors, listening for the jackboots to break in. Armies on horseback to rampage, pillage, rape, and murder. Christians in the arena before the gates open to unleash the wild animals.

    What happened in Las Vegas, etc. is so, so tragic. Nothing can diminish that. But, and it is a big ‘but,’ the world did not have instant images of teror. Maybe the internet has brought TMI. For ages innocent people have been the victims of violence. Psalms tell us that. Somehow, God’s people survive. I recall the Psalm verse, “Let God arise, and may His enemies be scattered.” Was the Las Vegas shooter an ‘enemy’ of God, deranged, evil? One or another, or all three? The last time I told a Serbian Orthodox priest of my concerns for the world, and how bleak I felt, and lost, and sorrowful, he said to me, “Let God be God.”

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    • Thank you Mary for that quotation from Mary Oliver, very appropriate. Feels like we are in the midst of waiting for the stone to be rolled away. It’s difficult sometimes to let God be God.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike+

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  4. What did we expect, we have taken GOD out of everything, we think we don’t need him. GOD is only doing what we ask him. Why does GOD permit evil, to bring a greater good out of it. During 911 not one abortion was performed.Planed Parenthood almost went out of business. Two weeks following 911 they were offering their services for free… >

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  5. The net time I told a Serbian Orthodox non-Christian priest of my concerns for the public, and how stark I felt, and lost, and sorrowful, he said to me, “Let God be God.” I recollection the Psalm verse, “Let God get up, and may His enemies be unconnected.

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  6. What does faithfulness look like in these times is, it seems to me, a challenge to suffer with – a challenge to enter into Christ’s suffering. And I find that I am experiencing physical and emotional responses to the suffering that I witness – the suffering of the world! The “mind of Christ” – self-emptying – seems to be what is calling me. So, dear Fr. Michael, I thank you for affirming and confirming the suffering of our journey in Christ. And calling me, at least, to view all in love – not as a panacea to relieve my own pain, but through the eyes and mind to which I am being called. Does this make sense?

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  7. Dear Fr. Michael Marsh Thank you for your profound inspirations, As I read and feel your words, I am moved beyond words. I simply want to express my heartfelt gratitude for the treasures your leave on this website to all who choose to enter. I often stop in for inspiration and I am always filled with love and a deeper knowledge of our Precious Lord Jesus Christ to whom all glory and honor be given. God Bless you and Thank You.

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