The Ending of a Pastoral Relationship

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All:     For everything there is a season and a time for every matter under heaven. (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

V: So teach us to number our days:
R: That we may apply our hearts to wisdom. (Psalm 90:12)

Let us pray.

O God of unchangeable power and eternal light: Look favorably on your whole Church, that wonderful and sacred mystery; by the effectual working of your providence, carry out in tranquility the plan of salvation; let the whole world see and know that things which were cast down are being raised up, and things which had grown old are being made new, and that all things are being brought to their perfection by him through whom all things were made, your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

All: For everything there is a season and a time for every matter under heaven. (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

V: So teach us to number our days:
R: That we may apply our hearts to wisdom. (Psalm 90:12)

The departing Minister says
On the 17th day of August, 2005, I was inducted by Bishop Lillibridge as rector of St. Philip’s Episcopal Church, having begun my ministry here on the 9th day of May, 2005. I have, with God’s help and to the best of my abilities, exercised this trust, accepting its privileges and responsibilities.

After prayer and careful consideration, it now seems to me that I should leave this charge, and I publicly state that my tenure as rector of St. Philip’s Episcopal Church ends this day.

Fr. Mike Do you, the people of St. Philip’s Episcopal Church, recognize and accept the conclusion of this pastoral relationship?

People We do, with God’s help.

Senior Warden Do you, Father Mike, release and entrust us, the people of St. Philip’s Episcopal Church, to the care of our interim priest, Fr. Bob, and to the new rector we will call?

Fr. Mike I do, with God’s help.

The departing Minister and the congregation then say together the following prayer.

O God, you have bound us together for a time as pastor and people to work for the advancement of your kingdom in this place: We give you humble and hearty thanks for the ministry which we have shared in these years now past.

Silence

We thank you for your patience with us despite our blindness and slowness of heart. We thank you for your forgiveness and mercy in the face of our many failures.

Silence

Especially we thank you for your never-failing presence with us through these years, and for the deeper knowledge of you and of each other which we have attained.

Silence

We thank you for those who have been joined to this part of Christ’s family through baptism. We thank you for opening our hearts and minds again and again to your Word, and for feeding us abundantly with the Sacrament of the Body and Blood of your Son.

Silence

Now, we pray, be with those who leave and with those who stay; and grant that all of us, by drawing ever nearer to you, may always be close to each other in the communion of your saints. All this we ask for the sake of Jesus Christ, your Son, our Lord. Amen.

The departing Minister then says
The peace of the Lord be always with you.
People And also with you.

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Image Credit: Michael K. Marsh, St. Philip’s Episcopal Church, Uvalde.

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20 responses to “The Ending of a Pastoral Relationship”

  1. Declaring How Much God Has Done – A Retirement Sermon On Luke 8:26-39 – Interrupting the Silence Avatar

    […] weeks ago I looked to see what the readings would be for today, my last Sunday to preach as your priest. My first thought when I read today’s gospel (Luke 8:26-39) was, Aw, come on God, really? The […]

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  2. C Reed Avatar
    C Reed

    Thank you for all your wisdom th

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Thank you for reading my blog. I’m grateful for your presence.

      Peace be with you,
      Mike

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  3. Warren C Suter Avatar
    Warren C Suter

    God’s blessings to you, Mike as you move into a new life phase. Thank you for your years of service and wonderful sermons.

    Warren Suter and Sandy Hamlin

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Warren and Sandy, thank you very much. I hope you all are well and I’m grateful for your time at St. Philip’s.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike

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  4. Bob Avatar

    I feel that I know you personally through your posts.. Your post have provided me with inspiration to manage times when things were not quite as easy as we would like them to be. Thank you for helping us to better see how we can expand the kingdom of God especially with the climate these days.May the peace of the Lord be with you and guide you in your next endeavors. Thank you Pastor Bob.

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Bob, I know there have been some difficult times for you and I’m glad the posts were helpful. Thank you for your blessing and good wishes.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike

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      1. Bob Avatar

        I keep looking hoping you might publish a message. I truly miss your sermons and inspirational meesages that made me stop and think and ask myself lots of questions. This coming weeks where the discipkes ask for more faith is one so true to many of us and again Thank you for all your sermons as I have saved many over the years and reread them. Bob Sims

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        1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

          Bob, thank you for your comment and encouragement to continue with Interrupting the Silence. Retirement has been a bit of an adjustment, still is, but I do begin writing again. I hope you are well and having a blessed Advent.

          God’s peace be with you,
          Mike

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  5. erikamorck Avatar

    I echo Bob’s thoughts. I too feel as though I know you personally and for that I am eternally blessed. Fr. Mike, you have helped me see yet another side of our multi-faceted all encompassing God. through your eyes, I too have seen a much broader view of “my” world and the very ones God loves and calls. Through your words I have been inspired in my own preaching – to dig deeper beyond what initially offends or gladdens me in God’s Word. As my own church has recently begun the call process for a new pastor, I can imagine the depth of loss your parishioners are feeling as you depart. Thank you for bringing the kingdom of God near. I hope you will continue to write!

    Many blessing to you dear friend in Christ.

    Erika Morck, LMA Our Savior’s Lutheran Church, Columbia Falls, MT

    (should you venture north in your travels, to high mountains and glacial snows, you are always welcome in our humble little church!)

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Erika, I feel the same about you – through comments and posts we’ve connected and been companions on the journey. Thank you for your thoughtful and kind words. Thank you for the invitation. Every time I look at the pictures you post I think to myself, “I want to go there.” I hope all is well for you.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike

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  6. tjohnsten Avatar
    tjohnsten

    You’ve had quite a fanbase in Montana, Pastor Marsh. My husband and I read your sermons weekly. We love all the questions you put forth. Early in covid you did an online class that I attended too (I am the one who is friends with Clark and Noreen Henley). Many thanks for your faithful service as a parish pastor. I second Erika’s invitation to journey northward. Pastor Trina Johnsten, Our Redeemer’s Lutheran, Helena, Montana

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Trina, how nice to hear from you. Thank you. I remember you and our class together. Neither Cyndy nor I have been that far north but it’s on our list. Blessings on you and your ministry.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike

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  7. Rev Julie Cartwright Avatar
    Rev Julie Cartwright

    And your fanbase is even wider – from a sleepy community in North Devon in the south of England I too have come to know a little more about you and your community with all your joys and sorrows through the wisdom of your sermons. I have appreciated your wonderful easy style which masks some profound insights, and as an Anglican Priest has helped me to think my way through each Sunday’s readings also, I wish you and your family every blessing as you begin a new stage of ministry – it never stops, and send my own invitation to visit if you are ever tempted to cross the pond…….

    happy Journeying

    Julie Cartwright

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Julie, I would love to visit some time. When I was young we lived at Camp Bovington and I went to school in Dorchester. Thank you for the invitation and thank you for your good words. I appreciate you reading my blog and I’m so glad it’s been helpful. Blessings on you and your ministry.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike

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      1. Rev Julie Cartwright Avatar
        Rev Julie Cartwright

        Hello Mike, I am leaving my contact details with you as it really would be lovely to see you and as we used to run a B & B we have plenty of room for guests.

        I think you might have known Rev Susanna Metz who taught at Sewanee? She came to work in our team and as a close friend spent her last months living with us here before needing more care than we could give. I told her I followed your blog and I think she might then have been in touch.

        Every blessing as you adjust to retirement, it can be a wonderful time.

        Best wishes

        Julie Cartwright

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        1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

          Thank you very much Julie. Yes, I did know Suzanna. I had a couple of classes from her at Sewanee. I remember when she moved to England and kept up with here a bit while she was there.

          Peace and blessings be with you,
          Mike

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  8. The Crisis Of Advent – Interrupting the Silence Avatar

    […] what happened? In short, I retired. I preached my last sermon at St. Philip’s and concluded my tenure there as rector. Cyndy and I packed our things and moved to Bastrop, Texas, about three hours from Uvalde. We […]

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  9. gsmcbrayer Avatar
    gsmcbrayer

    God Bless You dear brother…you have blessed many. Well Done, good and faithful servant! Enjoy your retirment, call me if all pass through DFW.

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Thank you very much Fr. Greg. I so appreciate your good words.

      Peace be with you,
      Mike

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