Epiphany House Blessing with Chalk

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2013 Epiphany Blessing

The Church has a custom of blessing homes on the Feast of the Epiphany and the week following. Family and friends gather to ask God’s blessing on their homes and those who live in or visit the home. It is an invitation for Jesus to be a daily guest in our home, our comings and goings, our conversations, our work and play, our joys and sorrows.

A traditional way of doing this is to use chalk blessed during the Epiphany liturgy and write above the home’s entryway, 20 + C + M + B + 14. The letters C, M, B have two meanings. They are the initials of the traditional names of the three magi: Caspar, Melchior, and Balthazar. They also abbreviate the Latin words Christus mansionem benedicat, “May Christ bless the house.” The “+” signs represent the cross and 2014 is the year.


Blessing the Chalk

V. Our help is the name of the Lord:
R. The maker of heaven and earth.
V. The Lord shall watch over your going out and your coming in:
R. From this time forth for evermore. V. The Lord be with you.
R. And also with you.

Let us pray.
Loving God, bless this chalk which you have created, that it may be helpful to your people; and grant that through the invocation of your most Holy Name all who use it in faith to write upon the doors of their homes the names of your saints, Caspar, Melchior, and Balthazar, may receive health of body and protection of soul for all who dwell in or visit their home; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Instructions for Blessing the Home

Using the blessed chalk mark the lintel of your front door (or front porch step) as follows:

20 + C + M + B + 14 while saying:

The three Wise Men, Caspar, Melchior, and Balthazar followed the star of God’s Son who became human two thousand and fourteen years ago. May Christ bless our home and remain with us throughout the new year. Amen. Then offer the following prayer: Visit, O blessed Lord, this home with the gladness of your presence. Bless all who live or visit here with the gift of your love; and grant that we may manifest your love to each other and to all whose lives we touch. May we grow in grace and in the knowledge and love of you; guide, comfort, and strengthen us in peace, O Jesus Christ, now and for ever. Amen. At times God has commanded his people to mark their doors. The Israelites marked their doors with the lamb’s blood on the night of the passover. A similar command was given with the Shema Yisrael:

Hear, O Israel: The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart … and write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. (Deuteronomy 6:4-6, 9)

“Chalking the door” is a way to celebrate and literally mark the occasion of the Epiphany and God’s blessing of our lives and home. With time the chalk will fade. As it does we let the meaning of the symbols written sink into the depths of our heart and be manifest in our words and actions.

Adoration of the Magi by John Flaxman (source)
Adoration of the Magi by John Flaxman (source)

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22 responses to “Epiphany House Blessing with Chalk”

  1. Olive Twist ~♥~ Avatar

    Reblogged this on OLIVE TWIST ~♥~ and commented:
    What a beautiful post! I love the idea of scribbling the initials of the three wise men on the doorway. I wish I could think of someone to do this for…

    Christus mansionem benedicat to each of your homes in the New Year!

    Sister Olive

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    1. Jane Avatar
      Jane

      You would inscribe the initials and crosses for yourself. Best not to impose your enthusiasm. Peace.

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      1. Olive Twist ~♥~ Avatar

        Alas, I do have a few crosses to bear, some of them well-deserved like the two thieves who hung next to Jesus.

        Sounds like you and I might be sisters in pain (from your other remarks).

        Shalom,
        Sister Olive

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  3. Marjorie george Avatar
    Marjorie george

    A lovely tradition that I was completely unaware of. A wonderful way to remember that Christ is our refuge and our true home. Thanks for this

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Marjorie, the Book of Occasional Services recommends Epiphany as a time for house blessings. It does not have the chalk blessing but offers a different liturgy. The chalk blessing has become a fun and meaningful part of our Epiphany celebration.

      Peace,
      Mike+

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  4. Charlotte Avatar
    Charlotte

    This was also a first for me Mike, so thank you for developing the theme. There was a blurb in our Sunday bulletin and St B’s hosted the event. What a beautiful tradition, and you have also written beautifully.

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Charlotte, this is our fourth year to do the chalk blessing and proclamation. It has become a meaningful and anticipated part of our Epiphany celebration.

      Peace,
      Mike+

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  6. stchrysostoms Avatar

    It has become a popular tradition in our parish – this year enhanced by giving crosses out for hiomes (the gift of a parishioner). See http://stchrysostoms.wordpress.com/2015/01/03/blessing-homes-20-c-m-b-15/

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      The crosses are beautiful and a lovely addition to the feast.

      Epiphany blessings,
      Mike+

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  7. Jane Avatar
    Jane

    When I was living with my uncle and aunt, they marked the doorways, but refused to tell me why. It frightened me that they would do something so mysterious. In retrospect, it was another way for them to tell me that I did not belong. What a shame.

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    1. Jane Avatar
      Jane

      Their only child became a nun.

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    2. Elaine Avatar
      Elaine

      Jane, I feel a lot of pain in your statement above. I pray that you will feel the peace of the Lord.

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    3. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Jane, I hope this Epiphany the light of Christ fills you and illumines your world with love and peace.

      Mike+

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    4. Diana Avatar
      Diana

      Jane, you belong to God. I hope you have found that place of love and welcoming. You are loved. Know that.

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  8. Flo Avatar

    I have never heard of this. It’s a beautiful idea. Shall give our parish priest a copy so that he incorporates it in his homily.

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      May the blessing of Epiphany and the light of Christ illumine your life and home.

      God’s peace be with you,
      Mike+

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  10. Elizabeth Avatar
    Elizabeth

    Thank you for this post. My husband, 15-year-old daughter and I have been doing a last festive family meal and a chalk blessing, since my daughter was small (she sometimes sat on my husbands shoulders to make the markings). We have used the annual Advent/Christmastide family prayer booklets handed out at our Episcopal parishes, but we have never seen a blessing for the chalk itself. Both blessings are among the loveliest we have used to date. We also did not know of the alternate meaning of the inscription (Christus mansionem benedicat). We observe the custom of not decorating heavily or hosting secular holiday gatherings until the last week of Advent, so this is a nice way for us to close out our family observance of Christmas when we are ready, not when the early celebrators take down their outdoor lights! Also, it’s a link to my French Catholic roots wherein the big celebration and gift-giving happened on Jan. 6th. Baking a simple King Cake is a fun addition to the observance.

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    1. Michael K. Marsh Avatar

      Elizabeth, I like the way you celebrate the season and am glad the post offered some additional explanations. I also like the idea of a King’s Cake. It would be a great addition to our celebration.

      I hope the Epiphany light of Christ fills your home and lives.
      Mike+

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